Consciousness Is The Solution Towards Being Decisive
At some point of life, we have to make a vital decision which involves a turning point in life. We stand in the middle of crossroads- unable to decide the right path.
How can we know that our decision is right? Who will guide us? Should we consider the advice of our well-wishers, who include family and friends? What if the decision turns out wrong?
These are the internal questions that bewilder and hinder a decision maker.
Consider the following situations wherein no one can make the right decision in an instant.
- You have an offer from a company which is located at your place of residence but it is a stalk job. You have a better offer from a company that is located at a different location far off from your place.
- You are offered a seat in the course of your choice in an average college and in a course you have no interests in a reputable college.
- A business opportunity has come to you. You would get 100 times more money if it works out. If it doesn’t, you would lose everything including your current savings.
- Car has become a necessity now. There are many models available in the market. Some of them have excellent features but you cannot afford to buy them. There are also models available which are cheap but cannot satisfy your requirements.
- You are planning to own a property. You have two choices. The former is buying a flat in an apartment complex which is cheap and secure. The later is buying a land where in you can construct a house in the near future. You have the land value in the later.
Further to add, you are proposed by 3 persons, all of whom satisfy your needs. The first person has an excellent educational background but has a bland personality. The second one is good looking but lacks educational background. The third one has both looks and brains but has a criminal record.
These are only examples of big decisions any individual has to face in life. And in reality there are hundreds of similar decision points. The decision made must be accurate, correct and final. Do you think it is possible? Yes, it is.
How To Make The Right Decision?
The best guide that can help you to make the right decision is your consciousness. Think clearly before you make the final decision. Do consider the suggestions made by friends, relatives, parents and well-wishers as they may raise valid points.
Execute the process in a systematic procedure. Take a piece of paper and write the advantages and disadvantages for each choice. Add weights to each of these points to prioritise how important they are to you. The points must include the future expected consequences, both positive and negative aspects.
Remember that you are the person who is aware of your weaknesses and your capabilities better than anyone else. Prepare yourself to face unexpected consequences.
Use the suggested method above before taking a decision. It makes no sense to think and worry after the decision has been made. Be confident and accept the results with a positive attitude.
Life is a puzzle- Solve it with intelligence. Life is a challenge- Face it with courage. Life is a question- Answer it with correct decision.
Phani
